
Love, what is love? That potent attraction that pulls two people together? No perhaps that’s hormones and little else. Well, might it be then, the fascinating encounter with a great thinker who can mesmerize one into ecstasy with words? I think not, intellectually fulfilling perhaps, at least for a time but love, no, not love. What about that perfect body, those lovely eyes and that suave voice. Aesthetically pleasing perhaps, but no, not love. We in the west, raised and nurtured on fairy tales and romantic novels, have a vague idealistic vision of love and I suspect that that vision is just an illusion. If we search for love guided by all the nonsense that we watch on television and read in books our love affairs will be quickly over because they’re based on “fried air” as the Italians like to say.
So what is love – are there different kinds of love, or is there just Love with a capital letter? Is that feeling you have for your dog or cat any less important to you than the feelings you have for your child. (I can hear the scandalized voices now .. but Let’s be honest.) Don’t you get all torn up and feel miserable when your dear four-legged friend dies. I know I still mourn my old friend Maao to the point that I never want to own another cat.
If we’re talking about sentiments and emotions, I suppose we could call a summer encounter or a meeting of minds on the internet a love affair, but if we’re looking for something deeper that involves something more universal maybe we should look within.
a quick flash
star-crossed summer loves
autumn cinders
© G.s.k. ‘16
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sun and moon
lovers always separated
forever linked
this heart
one with the universe
love
a warm touch
the cherry tree blossoms
in love with life
creation
attraction and repulsion
love’s paradox
© G.s.k. ‘16
This post is linked to: Carpe Diem Tokubetsudesu #69 An Essay About Real Love, Heeding Haiku With Chèvrefeuille February 10th 2016 and
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